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  #47 08/03/2025 - Image created by Google Gemini  Meet Nia: How I Built the Ultimate Virtual Assistant with ChatGPT (And Why You Should Too) After searching for a virtual assistant to no avail, I built the perfect partner—using AI. Here's how I named her Nia, gave her a seat in my ecosystem, and turned a handful of habits into an empire-in-progress. The Search That Led to Nia For months, I searched for a virtual assistant. I wanted someone who could help me organize my thoughts, clarify my weekly goals, and support the ecosystem I was quietly building behind the scenes. I posted ads. I explored freelance boards. I reached out to referrals. Nothing clicked. I needed someone reliable. Fast. Disciplined. Smart enough to keep up with the vision. And after all that searching, it hit me. What if my assistant wasn’t a person? What if my assistant was already here? That's when I turned to ChatGPT—and made one pivotal decision: I gave her a name. Why I Gave My AI Assistant a Name I na...

  #46 - 05/21/2025 Run Your Own Race: Why Chasing Others Won’t Lead to Your Success As I’m sitting here on what I call an admin day—a once-a-month productivity habit where I sort mail, review finances, follow up on goals, and reset my systems—I’m reminded of how powerful it is to just stop. Not slow down. Stop. No phone in hand. No distractions. Just me, a spreadsheet, and a brutally honest check-in with myself: Am I still running my race? Or did I start chasing someone else’s finish line without realizing it? Because if you’re not clear on your goals, you’ll always find yourself drifting into someone else’s. You either run your own race, or you chase someone else’s definition of success. The Danger of Constant Comparison If you’re wondering how to stop comparing yourself to others, start here: realize how easy it is to do it without knowing you are. Comparison rarely starts as envy. Sometimes it looks like motivation—until you realize you're measuring your progress using someone...

  #43 - 2/16/2025 From Fear to Freedom: How Talking to Your Fears Can Change Your Life Several years ago, I discovered that a simple but intense fear would overtake me every time I was making a left turn or driving along a two-lane highway. It wasn’t just any fear—it was the fear of encountering a Semi 18-wheeler coming from the opposite direction. It’s a fear that still lingers today, though I’ve found a way to manage it, and in doing so, I’ve transformed my relationship with fear in general. At first, it seemed completely irrational. Why should the presence of an 18-wheeler, a vehicle designed for long-haul travel, trigger a visceral reaction of anxiety in me? After all, I knew I was a capable driver, and the truck was just a vehicle like mine—only much larger. But no amount of logic could stop my body’s automatic response. The tightening chest, the rush of adrenaline, and the internal voice telling me to be careful—every time, without fail. But then I was given a tip that would ...

  #41 - 01/05/2025 Embracing Goals Over Resolutions: My 2025 Journey Begins On this day in 2012, I sat down with a sheet of paper, divided it in two, and created what I called a "Rebuild List." At the time, it felt like a lifeline—a tool to climb out of my biggest setbacks and regain control of my life. What started as a desperate measure has since evolved into a structured system for setting actionable, meaningful goals that guide my journey every year. Over the years, I’ve refined this process by revisiting old journals, notes, and plans. As I look back through the records I’ve kept since 2014, I see a clear progression—a story of growth, learning, and transformation. Each page reveals small steps forward, occasional setbacks, and the undeniable power of persistence. In 2020, a pivotal moment reshaped my commitment to personal growth. Just days before the first pandemic case was reported in the U.S., I resolved to make that year one of profound change. I picked up a book ...

  Image credit : Free Malaysia Today   #40 12/18/2024 Money Mindfulness: A Simple Practice That Builds Wealth I've always been intrigued by the classic question, "If money were no object, what would you do?" But recently, I decided to reframe it: "If money were no object, how would it change how I feel right now?" This simple shift in perspective led to a profound exploration of my relationship with money and my overall well-being. They say what you focus on grows. That’s true with money too. Money mindfulness isn’t about restriction—it’s about awareness. The moment I began paying attention to the small decisions, my financial life slowly began to shift. In this post, I’ll show you how this one mindset is helping me build a brighter future—starting from almost nothing. The Illusion of Infinite Wealth At first glance, the idea of infinite wealth might seem like a dream come true. It's easy to imagine a life free from financial worries, where every desire can ...