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Be Grateful: Cultivating a Mindset of Appreciation For a Happier Life. The Twelfth Success Principle - It's Worth Your Wage

Be Grateful: Cultivating a Mindset of Appreciation For a Happier Life. The Twelfth Success Principle - It's Worth Your Wage

#28 09/25/2024

Be Grateful: Cultivating a Mindset of Appreciation For a Happier Life. The Twelfth Success Principle - It's Worth Your Wage

Cultivating a mindset of gratitude has been one of the most transformative changes in my life. Inspired by The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, I've learned that there’s no greater feeling than embracing the abundance of what you have in the present moment. I often say, “You have to love what you have before you can have what you love.” This attitude of gratitude is not just about feeling good; it's also the first step toward mastering delayed gratification. By practicing delayed gratification, you can avoid making impulsive decisions or large purchases that satisfy only momentary desires. That's why I always give myself 24 hours to consider any major purchase.

How to Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude

So, how can you start to cultivate this mindset? A common suggestion is to make a list of 3-5 things you’re grateful for. I personally keep a gratitude journal and jot down my thoughts each day around noon. This practice helps me align my thoughts and finish my day strong.

A powerful technique is to reflect on 3-5 things you’re grateful for before bedtime and right when you wake up. Each morning, I tell myself, “I’m thankful for this day” or “It’s going to be an amazing day.” Since I began this practice a few years ago, I've noticed a significant shift in how I view my surroundings. I now take the time to appreciate the small, intricate things around my home that remind me of past accomplishments.

Finding Gratitude in Everyday Life

I express gratitude for having a home, a car, and even for paying utility bills. This concept, which I learned from The Secret, encourages you to be thankful for everything. When a utility bill arrives, I add a zero to the amount in my mind and affirm that this money will come back to me. While I’m still working on fully manifesting this belief, I genuinely appreciate the benefits of being a military veteran, which often entitles me to discounts. A few dollars off a sandwich may seem trivial, but it feels like a windfall when viewed through a lens of gratitude.

Understanding the significance of a 10% discount can lead to substantial savings or gains, all based on your perspective. An attitude of gratitude lays the foundation for a positive life, which I’ve explored in more depth in another blog post.

The Impact of Starting and Ending Your Day with Gratitude

Starting your day with gratitude sets a positive tone. Similarly, ending your day with a grateful thought can lead to a restful night’s sleep, paving the way for a refreshed morning. This practice has worked wonders for me, and I encourage you to try integrating gratitude and mindfulness into your daily routine.

In the end, you have nothing to lose—only a life filled with the abundance that surrounds you. Embrace gratitude, and watch how it transforms your perspective and your life.

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To whomever you are, I write that this publication will encourage you to subscribe and receive updates as we dive into the thirteen successful principles to move life from a roller coaster to less than a ripple. And remember, doing so will be worth your wage.

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